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I believe many wish they knew how to start living a wonderful and fulfilling life… Here, I’ve something which would definitely be useful to you if you would use it

1.  Answer this question[i] ASAP: What are the Good Memories^§ you want to leave behind when you leave this World? To emphasise it, ask, “What Good Memories^§ do you want to be remembered when you die?” (List at least ONE).

2. To be sure that you’re really committed, ask whether you are willing to risk shortening your life to achieve your Good Memories^§ ? If you are, then by all means, just do what you need and live life to the fullest.J[ii]. You should also ensure that whatever are you willing to sacrifice in order to obtain your Good Memories^§ does not, at any moment in time, result in someone else being hurt. If it may, then please review your Good Memories^§ and/or the strategies you have to achieve them before commencing with your plan.

3. To help you not waste your daily life, just think about what are the Good Memories^§ you want to be able to reflect upon at the end of each day. (This will help you to be focused and objective in scheduling time for achieving your Good Memories^§ by the end of the day; it will also enable you to be more aware about your priorities in Life). With the Good Memories^§ finalised, you will be able to make a decision to any challenges in your life within 5 minutes without a probability of regretting it in the future J

4. Strategies on How to Achieve Your Good Memories^§:

   • a.                Research/Read/Learn all the things that you can on topics that relates and that may assist you in achieving your Good Memories^§.
   • b.                Action on all the things that you’ve learnt/discovered from your research.
   • c.                Enjoy every moment of life by creatively/innovatively finding more ways to Research/Read/Learn, all the things that you can, about topics that relates to your Good Memories^§ and Action on all the things that you’ve learnt/discovered.
   • d.                The best way to really understand what you’ve learnt is of course to be able to effectively teach what you’ve Researched/Read/Learnt to others. Bench mark: you can only be certified that you’ve truly understood a subject if those whom you taught think that they benefited from your sharing and is able to confidently share what you shared!

   * - Open a file[iii] (e.g. with many empty clear plastic pockets). In them, place all the things that you desire-the pictures or words representing your dreams/ Good Memories^§ that you want and hope to achieve. And at the front cover, you may have the title written as “My Dream Destiny File” or “(Your Name) Dream Destiny File” to personalise it. On the second page, insert the article, which you’re now reading. For the third page, lists down all the answers that you come up with after reading this article. The rest of the pages will be your showcase of what life would be like for you when you have achieved answering whatever you wanted in life—Living your Dreamed Destiny. You may showcase anything of your choice regardless of what others may comment on them as every one of us is unique and is entitled to our own opinion of what we like and dislike—Freedom of Choice. This “Dream Destiny File” can be used as a personal motivation for us to strive for what we want to be worth!
   
   
   
   
   
   

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   ^§ Knowing our Good Memories is like knowing the final picture of a Jigsaw Puzzle. If we do not have the final picture of the Jigsaw Puzzle with us, it is almost impossible for us to solve the Jigsaw Puzzle. Even if we get to solve it eventually, it would have taken so much of our effort and time that when it is solved, we’re probably too tired or old to enjoy the fruits of our labour. When we have the final picture, do not worry about not being able to complete the Jigsaw Puzzle because once we started piecing it together, we would have very high chances of completing it. Even if we could not complete it (should we be killed whilst in our quest for our Good Memories)… we would still have (left behind) the Good Memories of knowing that we had tried our best and that we had not let ourselves down. Thus, we will die with NO REGRETS – because we would have lived a life with no Guilt!

   • [i] This question is important, as it’ll help you to discover your personal Purpose or Goals in living your life. With your Purpose or Goals sorted out, decision-making will be a breeze (easily or even effortlessly). The simple reason is that for every decision that you need to make, you only need to ask yourself, “Does this Challenge (problem) Benefit me or Harm me? If it Benefits me, I’ll accept the Challenge, otherwise I’ll reject the challenge as my life is priceless and I will not risk on anything that does not Benefit me.” However, if it is a Challenge as a result of the consequence of our earlier decision, we’ll need to be responsible enough to solve it. Either by ourselves or with the help of friends—can be anyone who is willing to help us). A True Friend is Someone Who Stays By Your Side In Your Time of Need When Everyone Else Avoids You.
   • [ii] It is better to live like a Lion for a Day, than to live like a Sheep for the rest of our Lives. As a Lion, we get to decide what we want and also when we want to achieve it; But as a Sheep, we live in fear and thus dare not dream of what we want, much less daring to decide what we want and when we want to achieve it! … Choose to Live a Life of Action, rather than Reaction, as it will mean that We Get to be Prepared for What is To Be—as we’re the ones, to a certain extend, planned for What is To Be.
   • [iii] This file can be used as an ice-breaker in families that never seem to know any reason to gather for a chat as they think they’ve a huge generation gap-don’t understand one another and can’t find common ground to talk about. With the “Dream Destiny File” created, especially by each and every family member… there will be so many topics to talk about that the only worry is… “Do we have enough time to share?”… Hence, we need to live longer to continually share our Good Memories^§.

   * If you like this article, please share it with your family and friends. Thanks in Advance

… “Where have U been?” I know you must be asking me this question due to my absence. Please accept my sincere apologies… well, if U really have to know, I’ve recently been overseas, to China, for business (sent by my company).. I guess that’s not really going to interest U unless it has something which could be of benefit to U ;-) 

Alright, I must confess that I’ve been trying out the ‘Law of Attraction’ which I learned from one of the books which I’ve bought, that is “Law of Attraction” by Michael J. Losier (it’s one of the books which I highly recommend on the right side of this website-and man, what a GREAT book it is!) It teaches me, step-by-step, how to exercise The Secret which I learned from the 90-min English video cum documentary entitled, “The Secret“-this video which I was introduced about 2 years ago made me aware of the Law of Attraction at work in our lives!

I sincerely urge you to check out this book (in addition to the video The Secret) and receive the benefits of consciously knowing how to utilize this powerful force. You might not be aware of it, but a very powerful force is present in your life. It’s called the Law of Attraction, and right now it’s attracting people, jobs, situations, and relationships to you! This book offers a quick and easy to follow guide on learning how to deliberately make the Law of Attraction work for you by bringing your thoughts into reality.. You would learn how to consciously manifest your positive thoughts into your physical world around you!

So, please do yourself a favour and check out this book Law of Attraction by Michael J. Losier and be greatly blessed ;-) 

Dear friends,

Thanks for your continued visits to my website even when I did not have the time to update it… I understand that you’re wondering what “A Baby’s Wisdom” is but somehow, for some reason, didn’t send me an email (tan.moneyonline@gmail.com ) to know more about it… I wish to share “A Baby’s Wisdom” with you today

Before I reveal it, do enjoy my simple thoughts below: 

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To All Beloved Friends: -           

You’re the Lighthouse in the Fog & Storm—My Saviour.           

You’re there for Me when I’m Lost.           

You’re My Guiding Star in the Deserts of Darkness…           

You’re My Hope when I’m Lost…           

If You Ever Need Me, I’ll be there for You.           

Just Keep Me in Your Living Memory—My Existence.

May the Living GOD Guide & Protect Us Always. AMEN.

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My Prayer to GOD: -                                         

You’re the Star of My Life, GOD… the Sun                               

Everlasting Radiance of Energy and Light.            

Filled with Omnipotent Power & Warmth.           

I’m Ever Willing to be Lost in YOUR Deserts of Darkness…           

So that I Could Plant seeds of Grass & Trees…           

& Create (yet) another Living

Allow & Bless Me with the Strength, Courage and Endurance to dig a Well of Living Water…           

So that I May Bring Life into YOUR Deserts on Earth.           

If I Should Ever Walk… In the Deserts of Darkness…           

No EVIL would I Fear, ‘cos YOU’ll ALWAYS BE THERE TO LEAD THE WAY.

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Now, for what you’ve wished for… A Baby’s Wisdom:

ii.                 *Give me compelling reasons for not letting me achieve option one—achieving what I want at the specified time that I want. And teach me how to achieve option one at another specified time that I decide. 

* - The condition for both options is that we should give our brain full authority to do what it want and need to do during the specified time that we’ve given. This will allow our brain to work both creatively and innovatively to give us what we want.

You’ll be surprised that by using this method and becoming aware that you could have your inner-self talk to you and guide you to achieving your goals, life seems easier. It’s like activating your 6th sense to guide you as you go about your daily life

Give this A Baby’s Wisdom a try, I believe you’ll surely be pleasantly surprised with the positive thoughts that comes your way in helping you to achieve your goals… Just be sure your goals are SMART (acronym for Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic and Time-based).

Remember, always think of positive things and things that you know would benefit you and those around you. As the saying goes,”What goes around comes around”. So give to others what you would like to receive. It may be as simple as giving your Care & Concern. As people don’t really care how much you know, but they care how much you care God Bless!