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I believe many wish they knew how to start living a wonderful and fulfilling life… Here, I’ve something which would definitely be useful to you if you would use it

1.  Answer this question[i] ASAP: What are the Good Memories^§ you want to leave behind when you leave this World? To emphasise it, ask, “What Good Memories^§ do you want to be remembered when you die?” (List at least ONE).

2. To be sure that you’re really committed, ask whether you are willing to risk shortening your life to achieve your Good Memories^§ ? If you are, then by all means, just do what you need and live life to the fullest.J[ii]. You should also ensure that whatever are you willing to sacrifice in order to obtain your Good Memories^§ does not, at any moment in time, result in someone else being hurt. If it may, then please review your Good Memories^§ and/or the strategies you have to achieve them before commencing with your plan.

3. To help you not waste your daily life, just think about what are the Good Memories^§ you want to be able to reflect upon at the end of each day. (This will help you to be focused and objective in scheduling time for achieving your Good Memories^§ by the end of the day; it will also enable you to be more aware about your priorities in Life). With the Good Memories^§ finalised, you will be able to make a decision to any challenges in your life within 5 minutes without a probability of regretting it in the future J

4. Strategies on How to Achieve Your Good Memories^§:

   • a.                Research/Read/Learn all the things that you can on topics that relates and that may assist you in achieving your Good Memories^§.
   • b.                Action on all the things that you’ve learnt/discovered from your research.
   • c.                Enjoy every moment of life by creatively/innovatively finding more ways to Research/Read/Learn, all the things that you can, about topics that relates to your Good Memories^§ and Action on all the things that you’ve learnt/discovered.
   • d.                The best way to really understand what you’ve learnt is of course to be able to effectively teach what you’ve Researched/Read/Learnt to others. Bench mark: you can only be certified that you’ve truly understood a subject if those whom you taught think that they benefited from your sharing and is able to confidently share what you shared!

   * - Open a file[iii] (e.g. with many empty clear plastic pockets). In them, place all the things that you desire-the pictures or words representing your dreams/ Good Memories^§ that you want and hope to achieve. And at the front cover, you may have the title written as “My Dream Destiny File” or “(Your Name) Dream Destiny File” to personalise it. On the second page, insert the article, which you’re now reading. For the third page, lists down all the answers that you come up with after reading this article. The rest of the pages will be your showcase of what life would be like for you when you have achieved answering whatever you wanted in life—Living your Dreamed Destiny. You may showcase anything of your choice regardless of what others may comment on them as every one of us is unique and is entitled to our own opinion of what we like and dislike—Freedom of Choice. This “Dream Destiny File” can be used as a personal motivation for us to strive for what we want to be worth!
   
   
   
   
   
   

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   ^§ Knowing our Good Memories is like knowing the final picture of a Jigsaw Puzzle. If we do not have the final picture of the Jigsaw Puzzle with us, it is almost impossible for us to solve the Jigsaw Puzzle. Even if we get to solve it eventually, it would have taken so much of our effort and time that when it is solved, we’re probably too tired or old to enjoy the fruits of our labour. When we have the final picture, do not worry about not being able to complete the Jigsaw Puzzle because once we started piecing it together, we would have very high chances of completing it. Even if we could not complete it (should we be killed whilst in our quest for our Good Memories)… we would still have (left behind) the Good Memories of knowing that we had tried our best and that we had not let ourselves down. Thus, we will die with NO REGRETS – because we would have lived a life with no Guilt!

   • [i] This question is important, as it’ll help you to discover your personal Purpose or Goals in living your life. With your Purpose or Goals sorted out, decision-making will be a breeze (easily or even effortlessly). The simple reason is that for every decision that you need to make, you only need to ask yourself, “Does this Challenge (problem) Benefit me or Harm me? If it Benefits me, I’ll accept the Challenge, otherwise I’ll reject the challenge as my life is priceless and I will not risk on anything that does not Benefit me.” However, if it is a Challenge as a result of the consequence of our earlier decision, we’ll need to be responsible enough to solve it. Either by ourselves or with the help of friends—can be anyone who is willing to help us). A True Friend is Someone Who Stays By Your Side In Your Time of Need When Everyone Else Avoids You.
   • [ii] It is better to live like a Lion for a Day, than to live like a Sheep for the rest of our Lives. As a Lion, we get to decide what we want and also when we want to achieve it; But as a Sheep, we live in fear and thus dare not dream of what we want, much less daring to decide what we want and when we want to achieve it! … Choose to Live a Life of Action, rather than Reaction, as it will mean that We Get to be Prepared for What is To Be—as we’re the ones, to a certain extend, planned for What is To Be.
   • [iii] This file can be used as an ice-breaker in families that never seem to know any reason to gather for a chat as they think they’ve a huge generation gap-don’t understand one another and can’t find common ground to talk about. With the “Dream Destiny File” created, especially by each and every family member… there will be so many topics to talk about that the only worry is… “Do we have enough time to share?”… Hence, we need to live longer to continually share our Good Memories^§.

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